Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Self Spontaneity

"Being spontaneous" is often mentioned as an important component in keeping our couple life happy and alive. Although being spontaneous in one's individual life is also advised by some, why is it not seen as important or as "necessary" for individuals? If being spontaneous with one's partner helps relationships stay healthy, why would spontaneity not also be healthy for one's well-being as an individual?

I argue that being spontaneous as an individual human being (and in a couple) is a necessary (but not necessarily sufficient) condition for living a more natural, free, exciting, and fulfilling life.

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